Even If Therapy Blog

Therapy for women navigating anxiety,

people-pleasing, perfectionism, trauma, and the pressure to be everything for everyone

What If They Never Change? Boundaries in Relationships

What If They Never Change? Boundaries in Relationshipsby: Kellie MurryPublished on: 29/09/2026

When someone you care about keeps hurting you, waiting for them to change can leave you stuck. Explore what you can do differently and how boundaries can help.

what if they never changeboundaries in relationshipssetting boundaries with someone who won’t changewhen someone keeps hurting youno contactchanging your part in a relationshipwhen to go no contactboundaries with critical parentslimiting contact with someone
What If They Never Change? Boundaries in Relationships

What Childhood Emotional Neglect Looks Like in Adults | Even If Therapy

What Childhood Emotional Neglect Looks Like in Adults | Even If Therapyby: Kellie MurryPublished on: 18/08/2026

Childhood emotional neglect isn't always obvious, but its effects can last into adulthood. Learn the signs, how it impacts relationships and self-worth, and what healing can look like.

childhood emotional neglect in adultssigns of emotional neglectemotional neglect symptomsemotional neglect traumahealing childhood emotional neglecteffects of childhood emotional neglect
What Childhood Emotional Neglect Looks Like in Adults | Even If Therapy

Why Do I Feel Responsible for Everyone’s Feelings?

Why Do I Feel Responsible for Everyone’s Feelings?by: Kellie MurryPublished on: 18/08/2026

Feeling responsible for everyone’s emotions? Learn why this happens, how it relates to anxiety and people-pleasing, and ways to set boundaries without guilt.

Why Do I Feel Responsible for Everyone’s Feelings?boundariespeople pleasinganxietytrauma responseguiltemotionsresponsibilityconflict avoidancewhy do I feel like everything is my responsibility emotionallyI feel like it’s my job to make everyone happywhy do I take on other people’s emotions
Why Do I Feel Responsible for Everyone’s Feelings?

Why Do I Over-Explain Myself? | Even If Therapy

Why Do I Over-Explain Myself? | Even If Therapyby: Kellie MurryPublished on: 11/08/2026

Why do you feel the need to explain yourself so much? Learn how over-explaining can connect to people-pleasing, fear of judgment, and difficulty trusting your own needs.

why do I over-explain myselfhow to stop over-explainingover-explaining and people-pleasingwhy do I feel the need to explain myselfover-explaining anxietyear of disappointing otherspeople-pleasing and boundaries
Why Do I Over-Explain Myself? | Even If Therapy